Parenting on Purpose | Pastor Nathan Green | 02.04.2024

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Talk It Out

Summary
The sermon introduces a new series titled ‘Family Essentials,’ focusing on the importance of building a Christ-centered family. The speaker emphasizes that this series is relevant to everyone, regardless of whether they have children, as everyone is part of a family, including the church family. The sermon draws from Deuteronomy 6, highlighting the Shema, a central prayer in Jewish tradition, and stresses the importance of impressing God’s commandments on children. The speaker discusses the challenges of parenting in today’s world, including the influence of technology and societal pressures, and encourages parents to be intentional in raising their children with Christ-centered values. The sermon outlines common parenting mistakes, such as risking too little, rescuing too quickly, and modeling weakly, and offers practical advice on how to expose children to the joy of knowing God personally and the power of His presence in the church.

Intro Prayer
Heavenly Father, we thank You for gathering us here today. As we delve into Your Word and discuss the essentials of family, we ask for open hearts and minds. Help us to receive what You have for us and to apply it in our lives. May Your presence guide our conversation and lead us to become more Christ-centered in all that we do. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Ice Breaker
What is one family tradition that you cherish and why?

Key Verses
1. Deuteronomy 6:4-9
2. Hebrews 11:6
3. Galatians 6:7
4. Mark 7:6
5. John 17:3
6. Psalms 92:13

Questions
1. What does it mean to be a Christ-centered family versus a Christian family?
2. How can we begin to implement the principles from Deuteronomy 6 in our daily lives?
3. What are some challenges you face in parenting or being part of a family today?
4. How can we balance protecting our children with allowing them to experience growth through challenges?
5. In what ways can we model a strong faith for our children or family members?
6. How can we expose our children to the joy of knowing God personally?
7. What role does the church play in helping us build a Christ-centered family?
8. What steps can we take this week to start being more intentional in our family relationships?

Life Application
This week, choose one area where you can be more intentional in your family life. Whether it’s starting a family prayer time, attending church together, or having open discussions about faith, take a step towards making Christ the center of your family.

Key Takeaways
1. Parenting is challenging, but we are called to raise Christ-centered families.
2. We must impress God’s commandments on our children and model a strong faith.
3. Risking too little, rescuing too quickly, and modeling weakly are common parenting mistakes.
4. Exposing children to the joy of knowing God and the power of His presence is crucial.
5. Start today to make changes towards a more Christ-centered family life.

Ending Prayer
Lord, we thank You for the insights and guidance You’ve provided today. As we leave this place, help us to carry these lessons into our homes and lives. May we strive to build families that honor You and reflect Your love. Give us the strength and wisdom to be intentional in our relationships and to make You the center of all we do. In Jesus’ name, Amen.


5 Day Devotional

The Foundation of a Christ-Centered Family

Devotional Parenting is no joke. It’s a job. It is work. It’s beautiful. It’s brutiful. Raising a family is brutiful. In today’s world, parenting comes with unique challenges, but the foundation remains the same: making God’s teachings central to our daily lives. Deuteronomy 6:4-9 reminds us to love God with all our heart, soul, and mind and to impress His commandments on our children. This means integrating God into every aspect of our lives, from breakfast conversations to bedtime prayers. By doing so, we create a Christ-centered family that stands firm in faith and love.

Bible Verse Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. – Deuteronomy 6:4-9

Reflection Question How can you start integrating God’s teachings into your daily family routines?

Quote As a Christ-centered family, you understand that God is not just a part of your life. He is your life. He is everything.

Prayer Lord, help us to make Your teachings the foundation of our family. Guide us to love You with all our heart, soul, and mind, and to impress Your commandments on our children. Amen.

The Power of Influence

Devotional As parents in the early years of our children, no one has greater influence on them than you do. This influence is a powerful tool that can shape their values and beliefs. In a world filled with ungodly influences, it’s crucial to expose our children to positive, godly values. This means being intentional about the people, places, and experiences we introduce to them. By doing so, we increase their likelihood of spiritual growth and help them develop a genuine relationship with God.

Bible Verse And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him. – Hebrews 11:6

Reflection Question What positive influences can you introduce to your children to help them grow spiritually?

Quote We can’t force our children to love God, but we can expose them to the people, places, experiences that increase their likelihood of spiritual growth.

Prayer Heavenly Father, guide us to be intentional in the influences we introduce to our children. Help us to expose them to godly values and experiences that will nurture their faith. Amen.

Modeling Christ-Like Behavior

Devotional Children don’t just become what you say. They become what they see every time. As parents, our actions speak louder than words. We must strive to model Christ-like behavior in our daily lives. This means showing love, patience, kindness, and forgiveness, even in challenging situations. By doing so, we set a powerful example for our children to follow, helping them to develop a strong, Christ-centered character.

Bible Verse Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. – Galatians 6:7

Reflection Question How can you model Christ-like behavior in your daily interactions with your children?

Quote Children don’t just become what you say. They become what they see every time.

Prayer Lord, help us to be living examples of Your love and grace. Guide us to model Christ-like behavior in our daily lives, so our children can see and follow Your ways. Amen.

Embracing Consequences and Pain

Devotional In an effort to protect them from pain, we actually as parents are robbing them of their confidence. Consequences and pain make for a great teacher. They are a great teacher. While it’s natural to want to shield our children from pain, it’s important to allow them to experience the consequences of their actions. This helps them to learn valuable life lessons and develop resilience. By embracing this approach, we can help our children grow into confident, capable individuals.

Bible Verse The righteous will flourish like a palm tree, they will grow like a cedar of Lebanon; planted in the house of the Lord, they will flourish in the courts of our God. – Psalms 92

Reflection Question How can you allow your children to experience the consequences of their actions in a loving and supportive way?

Quote Consequences and pain make for a great teacher. They are a great teacher.

Prayer Heavenly Father, give us the wisdom to allow our children to experience the consequences of their actions. Help us to support them through their pain and guide them to learn valuable life lessons. Amen.

Prioritizing God in Your Family

Devotional Church shouldn’t be optional occasionally. I get it, you got something. But it’s do you value the tournament or do you value God? Prioritizing God in your family means making church attendance and discussions about Jesus a regular part of your life. By doing so, you demonstrate to your children the importance of faith and community. This helps to create a strong, Christ-centered family that values and loves God above all else.

Bible Verse Now this is eternal life: that they know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom you have sent. – John 17:3

Reflection Question How can you prioritize God in your family’s daily life and activities?

Quote Church shouldn’t be optional occasionally. I get it, you got something. But it’s do you value the tournament or do you value God?

Prayer Lord, help us to prioritize You in our family’s daily life. Guide us to make church attendance and discussions about Jesus a regular part of our routine. Amen.